Regret Nothing!

Regret Nothing!

Story Time:

Earlier this year I bought a new car. My reason for doing so was based on my current vehicle being a 2004 model and reaching 100,000 miles. I wanted to avoid any unnecessary problems and expenses with my rav4 so I bought a new Toyota Corolla. Although I enjoyed my rav4, I knew I had to make the best decision. I really enjoy my Corolla, however, couple of months later Toyota released the first ever Toyota CH-R (crossover.) The CH-R is perfection! Everything I want in a vehicle and I can’t have it! “If only I would have waited, a couple of more months!”

I have regrets.

Regrets on decisions I’ve made, regrets about things I didn’t do, and regrets about having regrets. I want to get to a place where I can regret nothing and accept the things that didn’t happen. Regrets hold me back. How can I, Ms. Regret Everything, let go of my regrets?

I can start by learning from my decisions. So what, I made a decision that I’m not too proud of, that’s just a lesson learned. I need to just take the lesson, as is, and move on from it instead of dwelling in regret. I can say this to you all with ease but actually putting it into effect is the true challenge. I am determined to get there!

Next I can make new adventures. I didn’t go to this event and it turned out to be amazing but there’s always another event. I can save up and plan for the next time. I can’t cry about missing something because the timing was off. There’s always next time!

Lastly, I have to focus of the future and moving forward. I cannot keep holding myself back with regrets. You get one life and that’s not the best way to live it. Cadesia my dear, get over yourself and live life to the fullest! Why mess up the days to come worrying about something you can’t change? That makes no sense!

So if you’re like me and had many regrets just let go! You can learn from your regrets. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s indeed possible. You can also make new adventures and just focus on the future. We will not be a prisoner to regrets any longer!